Willypeet :

I am not "to good to be true." So please don't ask me .."why are you on this site and i can't believe"..I feel ya pain my sista, as i know i can't blame your impatience dealing with a lot of us brothas...but there are some true blue good strong,driven, God fearing, respectful, keep it real, that w nt to live life to the fullest, out here...But we are not out on the scene much as we have gone to "prepare a place"..so to speak. The web can be a wonderful thing as we might not go to your church, might not know your friends, and you likely will say you have a man when you are out with the girls and frustrated with lines and fake cards. I am interested in a sista that has that spark, that sex appeal, whatever it is...that makes my eyes blink and my heart beat a little faster when she is around or when we are making plans for that evening. I am a romantic at heart, but a realist, i love to pamper and to be pampered..It trips me out how a lot of sistas feel that sex is a favor, nall..it's mutual..there's more to you than sex right? or that's what you say right?That is very important, but icing on the cake of fun times, relaxation, stimulation and making the most out of every single day we have in this life.Life is really too short,time is of the essence..make the most of it. I had a sista on here to ask me..what does it take to get and keep a black man? I told that a lot of sponaneous HOT SEX (anytime, anywhere, ie table, closet, garage, patio, balcony,etc...)NURTURANCE(mother his inner child, breakfast in bed can go a long way)ACCEPTANCE and APPROVAL(ask questions about sports, fishing, whatever , even if you know the answer, commend him on what he does do well)GUILT( you can't make a grown man do a dayum thang..if you could you wouldn't want him anyway..gentle confrontation about questions of infidelity,etc) If you have his HEART, you have HIM.. Some people are imposssible and if that doesn't work, you got the wrong man or you may have a BOY, there is a difference.